I have a new coaching path in the making
and I was asking myself should I call it Finding your truthful self, or Finding your true self.
But the thing is there is no true you!
You change all the time. You are a process of becoming. And as long as you are truthful you will evolve.
Hence I decided on Finding your truthful self.
Together we’ll have you reclaim your energy.
It takes an awful lot of energy to hold yourself down.
It takes an awful lot of energy to keep that gorgeous you out of the way.
It takes an awful lot of energy to not be the Queen of your life.
Or at least have the potential to be.
However, as things look right now it’s merely potential.
Do you want that to change?
Do you long for different?
Do you deep down desire to evolve into something else?
Be the magic of you?
Is your desire to step up, or stay low?
Does it feel like you’re walking in circles?
You probably are.
What would you say about walking in spirals instead?
That means moving up with every single step.
It can feel like you’re moving in circles, it can look like you’re moving in circles, but in reality, you are moving up!
Who is holding you accountable for your awesomeness?
How do you hold yourself accountable for your awesomeness when you don’t know you are awesome? Sure, you say it but those are only words.
Deep down inside you don’t believe it. Be truthful and you will eventually get there.
I’ll do that for you. Hold you accountable for your awesomeness, because I know you are!
I’ll hold you accountable for your low ends too.
When you balance on that edge sometimes you won’t only need someone to hold our hand. You need somebody to carry you over. I will do that for you. I’ll carry you over.
I’ll believe in you when you don’t believe.
I’ll love you will you don’t love.
And I’ll challenge when you only want to hide.
Who are you?
A woman of integrity. A woman who has done a lot of work and come to a halt.
A coach perhaps, wondering how to move forward and become visible in the mainstream of copycat coaches.
Still not necessarily with your business, your career, or your family situation or relationships, but with you. You know there is more to you that you can’t reach right now because you’re scared of moving out of your current position.
However, this is not for everyone!
Personal development is messy! I just want you to know it’s messy.
Who am I?
A stranger to you, no doubt. No guru. No fame.
Nevertheless… I’ll challenge you.
Challenging someone requires courage.
Challenging someone requires experience.
Challenging someone requires daredevil attitude.
Challenging someone requires that you can handle the frustration, the anger, the disappointment that will come rushing at you but have nothing to do with you.
I’ve been there, done that, and I will do it again. With you. If you let me.
Basically, I think you should go with someone who’s done it. Who’s ahead of you. There is no way you can find someone in any field that is “done”. Ahead will do. Preferably quite a distance from where you are, considering the particular field where you yearn to move ahead.
Done, doesn’t exist. It’s a constant process. Yet the one you gonna lean into has to be ahead of you, have more skills, more knowledge, more experience within the field you too desire to evolve.
How else are you going to learn? You can’t afford to have a blind leading a blind.
And I’m not talking about money here, I’m talking about something much more precious and important to you. I’m talking about your life. You are time. You know time is not money, time is life and nothing else. And life? Life is you.
Cut the fearless BS!
Now, can we please let go of the ”fearless female” bullshit?” You’re full of fear and so am I.
The difference between us is most likely that I’ve moved through more of my fears than you have because I’ve come to a place of deep love, appreciation, and respect for myself. A place where you long to go.
I’m happy at my core. But, fearless? No way! There are way too many things to discover out there to afford to be fearless.
When it gets unknown and scary that’s where I shine. When I have no idea what to say or what to do to help you, that’s where I shine.
How do I know? Because I’ve been there. And it’s when I manage to wiggle us both out of it, not only safe and sound but as better versions of ourselves that we both soar. Together!
I dare to step into the unknown territory with you. I dare to step out of my own comfort zone when I’m with you and that is where the magic happens.
I don’t come saying I know I’ll I have the solution to whatever your problem is. Instead, I’ll say I haven’t a freaking idea what will happen because I’m ready to step out of my comfort zone and that’s where the magic happens.
How many coaches have you ever heard say this? No, that’s not what they say.
They say they will comfortably take you out of your troubles. That they have the tools, experience and the capacity and then everything will be super, safe and fantastic.
Do you know what? This is gonna be hard! And just like myself, they have no idea, but at least I’m honest about it.
Nothing much happens within your safety zone
Do you thirst for magic and miracles to happen? Then you have to go with someone who steps beyond safety. Magic and miracles cannot happen within your safety zone or within your coach’s safety zone. Magic and miracles can only happen when you walk away from comfort, out on thin ice and the ice breaks!
You won’t notice it cracking, but I will. And I will swim you to the shore. I’ve done that before, many times. I have training in swimming through this kind of ice cold water, holding somebody. It’s exhilarating and scary as shit!
But I can’t let you sink because then I can’t love myself any longer. And my love for myself is a sacred space.
Therefore I will swim across that lake with you on my back since my quality of life depends on my self-respect and my self-respect can only thrive when I swim with you.
Can you feel the stir within you?
Whether it’s excitement or fear, it doesn’t matter. The body reacts exactly the same way to both!
Is that stir the sign of magic and miracles are on their way?
If so click, it’s on LinkedIn to message me.
I know you desire to change the world yet that change can only happen by transforming you.
And since you’ve read this far I’m bold enough to claim you’ll initate that transformation by talking to me!